Well let's be completely honest ladies, being patient and waiting for Mr.Right can be a challenge. There are so many sweet and adorable men out there. Why are you not one of the women who get them? Maybe you have tried dating someone but after it didn't work out you decided "No More!" You are not going to toss your heart to just anyone but to wait for the right man. But as time passes...very slowly...and I mean vveerryy slowly you start to wonder if your defective. Are my standards too high? Am I meant to become a old spinster? Do I unknowingly smell like a camel that just ran a marathon and then ate a garlic chicken sandwich? (Can you imagine how awful that would smell?)...Well no matter your scent, a man who God has chosen for you will love you for who you are. Here are some tips to keep you company while you wait for Mr.Right and all of his Prince Charmingness.
- Try something new!
- Do be adventurous. Taste that food! Ride that Rollercoaster! Try that hairstyle! Go to that event!-Have some good stories to tell that Mr.Right when he does come into your life. It will prove that you had a life and enjoyed it while being single. A guy wants a girl that is not dependent on a guy for her happiness. Don't mope around eating ice cream and chocolate while watching romantic comedies or dramas hours on end. This will just make the wait seem longer! -trust me, the sweets in your hand and the hotties in the movie may seem like a good way to escape but it will come back and bite you! Plus,do you want to be recovering from a breakout from that pity party of chocolate when Mr.Right finds you??? Yea,No...
- Spread out and make new friends!
- Do get involved in groups, organizations, clubs or volunteer for something. I have met so many of my friends by doing this. Do something that complies with your interests and talents. But make sure NOT to sit around and wait for others to come to you each time. Being single AND not having any friends is the most boring and sad situation to find yourself in. Surround yourself with people who love you for who you are and in turn you will enjoy life .Be the friend that you would want someone to be to you.
- Focus on others more than yourself!
- When your more focused on helping and caring for others then your too busy to get sucked into the rut of self pity. I have rarely heard someone complain about the feeling they get when they just finished helping someone. It is a wonderful and fulfilling feeling! You should try it. This is your chance to be creative in how you do this as well ^_^
- Focus on the now and don't worry about the future!
- If your too concerned about the future then you will miss out on the chances and people around you NOW. Make some memories and live in the moment. But please for everything good in this world...don't be stupid! Yeah! that idea that you just thought about, yeah that one! It's stupid, toss that one out. If you die then what's the point of reading this blog about waiting for MR.Right?? Yeah, remember that. Your no use to him if your dead!
- Set standards!
- Having standards does not make you like an Amish person or mean that you don't have fun. It actually means you are worth waiting for yourself. And if "living too much in the past" means you value yourself and set standards then please....hand me the Bingo card and Knee-highs. How do you expect a Man to respect and value you like a rare find if you don't treat yourself as such? Don't be afraid to just say "NO" if that something would compensate your standard. And don't ever feel like you set your standards too high.
- Avoid the land of "If Only"!
- If you live in fairy-tale land like I tend to do then you know that the real life tends to be a let down. I mean how can the real life be expected to compete with a land that doesn't even exist and is set up perfectly to cater to that moment. A movie scene for example.But if you just sit back and live in real time then the real life will show you it's own wonders and it will NOT let you down!
- Plan plenty of friend get-togethers!
- Grow close to the people you have in your life. Enjoy the time you have with them before they move away or get married themselves. Make some memories and have fun.Go to the movies and laugh at the lady's hair in front of you that reminds you of a lint ball. Throw your own party for no reason and invite them over for food,games,self-spas or crafts. I stress that people who are single do have a life and they can have fun! That is just lies that people in relationships come up with to make single people feel jealous.-I promise, It's a conspiracy!!
